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If you’re looking for support with binge eating recovery, you’re not alone, and you’re not broken.
Binge eating is the most common eating disorder, yet often the least talked about. It’s not about willpower or weakness. It’s about emotional pain, unmet needs, and, often, neurodivergence. At Counsellor Who Cares, I offer binge eating recovery support that’s warm, non-shaming, and grounded in real-life understanding. Whether your binges happen during stress, boredom, or emotional overwhelm, we’ll explore the reasons together and build new ways forward
Our Services
Binge Eating Is the Most Common Eating Disorder, But Often the Least Talked About
Binge eating disorder (BED) affects people of all sizes, genders, and backgrounds. It’s not about lack of willpower. It’s often a complex mix of emotional overwhelm, undiagnosed neurodivergence, dopamine-seeking behaviours, and years of shame.
This page isn’t about blame. It’s about getting curious.
Whether your binges happen during stress, boredom, late-night scrolling, or emotional shutdown, there’s a reason beneath it. And I’ll help you uncover it gently.
The Neuroscience Behind Bingeing
There’s a Brain-Based Reason You Binge And It’s Not Your Fault
Binge eating often activates the brain’s dopamine reward system, giving short-term relief from discomfort. That hit of pleasure becomes a coping strategy, especially for those with ADHD, anxiety, or high emotional sensitivity.
You’re not “out of control.”
Your brain is doing what it thinks it needs to survive or self-soothe.
In our work, we’ll explore:
➔ How dopamine, stress, and food are wired together
➔ Why boredom feels unbearable (especially for neurodivergent brains)
➔ The emotional “drop” that happens before a binge
➔ How to interrupt the cycle without shame
It’s Not Just About Food
The Importance of Tailored Support
Bingeing Isn’t Just About Food, It’s What the Food Is Covering Up
Binge eating can be:
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A way to numb out
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A response to trauma or chronic stress
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A coping tool for emotional dysregulation
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A rebellion against years of dieting
Together, we explore the why without judgment and build your ability to meet those needs in new ways.
Flexible Recovery Tools
My Therapeutic Approach
This Isn’t a Meal Plan. It’s a Mind-Body Reset
My approach is direct, warm, and trauma-informed. No fluff. No shame. I use a combination of strategies to help you:
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Track emotions + behaviours using the Recovery Record app.
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Understand your triggers and hunger patterns
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Rewire binge cycles using neuroscience and habit tools
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Explore beliefs like “I can’t trust myself” or “I’ll never get better”
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Rebuild body trust
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Practice self-kindness while still being accountable
A Note for Neurodivergent Clients
If You’re Neurodivergent, or Think You Might Be, Let’s Tailor It
People with ADHD, autism, or sensory sensitivities often experience binge eating differently. If you’ve been masking, misunderstood, or trying to fit into someone else’s recovery framework, it’s not you that’s broken.
Together, we create something that works for your brain.
From Bingeing to Becoming
I Know What It’s Like to Binge Because I’ve Been There
When I was a teenager, I didn’t understand what was happening to me. I would eat and eat until I felt sick, spend copious amounts of money on food, and lie about it. I was overwhelmed, ashamed, and lost.
I struggled with undiagnosed ADHD and dyslexia. I didn’t know who I was, and bingeing gave me a hit of something to hold onto. I hated my body. I hated how out of control I felt.
That experience didn’t break me; it shaped me. It gave me the insight and empathy to sit here with you now as the therapist I needed back then.
This work means everything to me

Emotionally navigating with food — a lived experience approach from Becky Stone, a specialist in eating disorder recovery.
because I know what it takes to come out the other side.
Client Success Stories
Recovery started when I felt safe, not judged.”
One client came to Counsellor Who Cares feeling stuck in the binge–restrict cycle. They’d spent years trying to “control” their eating, convinced it was a willpower problem. But through gentle, trauma-informed work, they began to understand the emotional triggers behind the binges. Therapy helped them develop a healthier relationship with food based on safety, not shame. Mealtimes now feel calmer, and no longer want to start over every Monday.
I didn’t know men were allowed to struggle with this.”
Another client had lived in silence for years, carrying the weight of secret bingeing and the belief that this wasn’t something men should talk about. In therapy, they found a space where they weren’t judged or told to “just eat normally.” Together, we worked on building emotional safety, understanding the deeper needs driving their behaviour, and slowly letting go of guilt. They now eat in front of others with confidence and no longer feel the need to hide.
Once I realised I was neurodivergent, everything made more sense.
A third client had tried several programs but felt they never quite fit. The missing piece? Their neurodivergence. Traditional recovery advice didn’t stick. At Counsellor Who Cares, we tailored strategies to work with their brain, not against it, focusing on structure, novelty, and emotional regulation. The result was a more compassionate, sustainable way forward. Their story shows how powerful recovery can be when built around the person, not just the diagnosis.
Becky Stone's Expertise
Meet Your Therapist
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Recovery Isn’t Linear, But It’s Absolutely Possible
You don’t need to have it all figured out. You need to take the first step. There’s no perfect way to heal, but there is a way forward. And I’ll walk beside you while you find it.
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Starting Your Journey
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Meet Becky , Your Guide to Food Freedom and Healing
I’m Becky Stone, a qualified eating disorder therapist based in Canterbury, working online with clients across the UK. My approach is grounded in real-life experience, trauma-informed care, and a deep understanding of what it feels like to struggle in silence. I’ve walked my own path through binge eating and undiagnosed ADHD, and now I help others rewrite their story with compassion and clinical support.
Whether you’re just starting or have been stuck in the cycle for years, I meet you where you are, with no judgment, no pressure, and a personalised plan that works.