Unseen Battles: Coping with Domestic Violence and Eating Disorders Amid Football Fever
Imagine cheering for your favourite football team while silently battling an eating disorder and enduring domestic violence. For some, the excitement of the game is overshadowed by a dangerous reality. As the nation rallies behind England in the Euros, these hidden struggles often go unnoticed, masked by the crowd’s roar.
During the last World Cup in 2018, the NSPCC recorded a 33% increase in child welfare contacts about domestic abuse. This alarming statistic underscores the often-hidden impact of domestic violence—a factor closely linked to the development of eating disorders. Studies show that over 60% of women with eating disorders have experienced domestic abuse.
Football season can be a triggering time for individuals struggling with domestic violence and eating disorders for several reasons, including increased alcohol consumption and heightened emotional arousal. These factors can exacerbate multiple variants of eating disorders. Football season is a time of national unity and excitement but can also be a period of heightened stress and danger for many. The combination of domestic violence and eating disorders during this time can have devastating effects, yet these issues often remain unspoken. It is crucial to take a few minutes to understand the severity of the situation and recognise what to do if you see signs in yourself or a loved one.
Symptoms and Red Flags of Eating Disorders
Physical Signs:
- Extreme weight loss
- Fatigue
- Dizziness
Behavioural Signs:
- Preoccupation with food
- Strict dieting
- Binge eating
- Excessive exercise
Emotional Signs:
- Anxiety around mealtimes
- Guilt
- Depression
- Social withdrawal
Identifying Domestic Violence
Physical Signs:
- Unexplained injuries
- Frequent “accidents”
- Signs of restraint
Behavioural Signs:
- Fearfulness
- Submissiveness
- Isolation from friends and family
Psychological Signs:
- Low self-esteem
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Suicidal thoughts
Combined Red Flags
Combined Red Flags- An abuser may restrict their partner’s food intake, using it as a method of control, especially during high-stress events like football matches.
- Patterns of Control: Abusers may control food intake or eating habits as a form of power.
- Increased Tension: Football-related stress and alcohol consumption can trigger violent episodes.
Emotional Manipulation: Abusers may exploit vulnerabilities related to eating disorders to exert control.
It is estimated that 24% of people do not report their domestic violence because they believe that no one will believe them or they fear the consequences. It is so important to report any domestic abuse, especially if there are children involved. The more evidence you report to the police, the stronger your case will be.
Take Action
Domestic abuse in football is an important topic that also encompasses significant but often overlooked issues like eating disorders during the football season. If you see any signs or symptoms mentioned above, do not hesitate to report or remove yourself from the situation. If you need help, numerous domestic abuse hotlines, shelters, and support groups are available. To contact Victim Support, call 0808 168 9111 (open 24 hours a day, seven days a week) or call 999 for immediate assistance.
If you take anything away from this message, let it be this: be vigilant to the signs and symptoms of domestic abuse and be supportive of those who might be struggling. Your awareness and action can make a significant difference.
